Couples' DOs and Don't
First the DOs
•Try new things, be open minded
•Communicate with each other
•Keep your partner’s comfort and security in mind at all time.
•Don’t rush: Don’t do something just because everyone else around you is doing it. This is a lifestyle and you have your whole life to enjoy it! One step at a time.
•Set limits and Stick to it
•Wear something sexy: this is especially important for us women to feel sexy. It boost our confidence and help us be more aggressive
•Be polite and considerate: even when rejecting someone, do it respectfully.
•Have a drink and mingle: try talking to people. Not necessarily people you would be interested in but even those you are not.
•Ask questions…
•Censor your images so if you are naked, your face is not showing or if your face is showing then make sure it’s a g-rated pic.*(see comment below).
•Read other people’s profile: don’t just look at the picture and rush to answer. Make sure you are compatible… this will save you time and translate to less rejections.
•Make sure you are clean.
•Always wear Condoms!
•Be honest and describe yourself objectively.
•Always observe genitals and mouth area closely looking for any obvious signs of STD’s before ever doing anything. You can make this not look to obvious by making it part of your foreplay. Remember if you’re too drunk you’re not going to be very observant.
•Create an email address used for lifestyle only communication to avoid confusion with your vanilla friends and other family members. Do not use your last name in the email address. It’s good to get on first name bases but it’s also good to create an email address that may also be the handles you are know on most of the swinger dating personal sites such as ours. We use Funfriendsx2@ ???????
Now the DONTs
•Don’t do anything you and/or your mate are not comfortable with “just to fit in”
•If it does not feel right don’t do it.
•Be afraid of rejection and let that be a barrier from approaching others.
•Don’t be too aggressive or overpowering.
•Do it without condoms.
•Don’t get drunk, loud or pushy.
•Smoke around people who don’t.
•Don’t lie about yourself, your looks or your status.
•Post naked pictures with your face showing.
•No means no. Respect their boundaries and they will respect yours.
•If it smells and you won’t lick it then don’t stick it. Not worth the risk. Just move on.
•Don't Kiss and Tell.
•Give out your last name unless you have known them for a while and trust them.
•Tell anyone where you work unless you really trust them.
•Go to someone else’s house to play unless you known then for a while and/or really trust them.
* When placing an ad find out if non members can have access to all the pictures. Usually sites will give the first picture free to all visitors but you have to be a member to view the rest. So try to upload g-rated pics first.
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